Video Series: REAL-ationships

Hello Church Lovers!

We are near to ending the first quarter of  2016 and while I am excited about releasing the final book of this series, I am equally excited about the teaching that is happening, centered around Church Love; B.L.I.S.S., our non-fiction e-book. We have several online teachings available on our YouTube page under the tab REAL-ationships. These topics range from Marriage, Sex, Singleness, Bozo, and many other things. As you anticipate Book 4: Cross Fire, I hope you will stop by and view these sometimes serious, sometimes humorous, but always insightful teachings. I can't wait to meet you in Savannah with the whole crew. It's going to be great! Until then, here's my own #ChurchLove Story. Get your popcorn and drink ready, settle into a good chair, and get ready to hear how God gave me my very own "Shemiah". The rest of the story can be found on the playlist.

Here's Part 1

New E-book on Grief

Good Afternoon!

I hope you're having a wonderful year so far. I want to invite you to give to a special cause. 

My latest nonfiction book titled,Grief For Dummies: How Loss Made Me Look Again At The Process is available for ordering today for only $1.99. Here's what one reader had to say: 

"This book moved me." Tremayne Moore, Maynetre Manuscripts 


Told in a journalistic style, I share my story of personal loss and ways to help those who grieve. 

Here's the link to order below : http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/grief-for-dummies-shantae-charles/1121173979?ean=2940150067868

A portion of the proceeds will go to supporting families who cannot afford to lay their loved ones to rest. I hope you will read and share and learn how to be a practical help to others as I share my very own story of loss. 


Thank you for supporting the cause and sharing the cause with others!

 Shantae Charles

My Writing Process & Purpose

I've been asked to share a little bit about my writing process by my fellow authors and answer a few questions. 

1. What are you working on? I am working on the last novel in the Church Love Novel series (slated for release 2015) , and then after that, I plan to finish volume 2 of Church Love B.L.I.S.S. , the non-fiction behind the fiction of Church Love, a relationship manual detailing principles of courtship. You can get volume 1 here: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/church-love-bliss-series-volume-1-shantae-charles/1118611732?ean=2940148269243

As a Publisher, I am currently looking at potential editing projects for 2015. If you are interested in those services you can visit my link here: www.facebook.com/pages/GOD-IdeasLLC/170107669721558

2. How does your work differ from others in its genre? Though my work is Christian Romance fiction, it is also prophetic. I see my work as a new genre, Prophetic fiction. I write while fasting and praying and strive not only to tell a good story, but to really hear what God would say to the characters in different situations. I've had people share their stories of encounter with God while reading the series, and I know it is more than a series to entertain, but to impart an understanding of how very much God wants to be involved in our lives. I also feel it is unique in that it takes non-readers and turns them into avid readers. I've had many write and say they HATED reading ANYTHING and are now avid readers and enjoy it. Like Stephen King's writing, I know my work is not for everyone, but it impacts the lives that it needs to and I am satisfied with that. 

3. Why do you write what you do? My life of writing started by a prophecy, so I guess it makes sense that it is prophetic. When I was 17, it was spoken over my life that I would write and my writing would impact people all over the world. This was before Facebook. I did not believe this person because I was an artist, not a writer and had NO DESIRE at ALL to write anything. I had graduated high school hating English because my teacher (Mr. Cox) pushed so hard. I was a singer, dancer, visual artist, and had wrote a few songs. I was not a writer in my own eyes. It was not until I watched a movie called Deliver Us From Eva, starring LL Cool J and Gabrielle Union that God put a fire in my belly. I watched the movie and was livid. I was angry at the portrayal of the Black Church, the Black female, and God. I left the movie thinking, Why does everything that people write have to be about what is wrong with the church? Why is no one writing stories, especially for people of color that shows that there is good in the church and not everyone is sleeping around and singing hallelujah? Who is telling THAT story? Right after that, I heard God say, You are going to write that story. That was the beginning of my literary journey a decade ago. I started with one character, and intended to just write one book. As I wrote, she became a part of what I now call the Kingdom Community. This is how Church Love Series was born. I realized that God wanted to demonstrate the power of love, family, friends, and Christian community. So, I write because I feel divinely commissioned to do so. I write to educate people on true Christian community through my parabolic style writing, and I write to show forth godly principles for marriage and courtship through the Church Love series. My tongue is the pen of a ready writer as I have grown in this gift. I also have four blogs, one which was named a Hidden Gem in 2013 for teens: http://legsclosedmindopen.blogspot.com/

I learned a valuable lesson about purpose: If it makes you angry, that's probably where your passion lies! Moses had a similar dilemma. 

4. How does your writing process work?  I write in blocks of time and do most of my writing on weekends and holidays. Sometimes I have other story ideas that form from my writing. The picture above is some of my notebooks where I have stories yet to be published but they are written out. I write character sketches, outline my story, and try to stick to it unless the story takes on a life of its own. I also have notebooks solely for research. I am a very detailed writer and I love history, so I like to study out different things and visit the places I am writing about so that my writing is authentic. It is always a compliment when a person from Savannah can picture the places in my story because I have been there and done the research, and lived in the experience so I can write about it in the most authentic way. I even created the drink Chocolatte, so I could accurately write about it. I also created a drink called the Church Love, now quite popular with my local Barista. The joy of writing! 

5. What are you reading? Currently, I am reading writing process books,  and studying the book of Proverbs along with a FB study group. I am also reading Undaunted by Christine Caine, which ties into my subject matter of Human Trafficking for my last book in the Church Love series. 

I hope you have enjoyed learning a little about my writing process and purpose!

Life Changing Encounters Through Prophetic Fiction: Church Love

I never 'saw' myself as a writer. It was prophesied to me that I would write when I was 17. I did not release my first novel until I was 26. God's Word has continued to come to pass. I write something they don't have a category for--yet: Prophetic Fiction. God speaks through these stories. I write while fasting and praying and I feel the presence of the Lord while writing. I always pray that people would read these novels and encounter God in the midst of them. Here is one such encounter:

Hello, I just wanted to write you because I have finished Church Love, Book Three. I tell you those books have been with me through it all. As I wrote you a while back I was running away from marriage like I stole something! Since then I had been stressed and obsessed with NOT getting married. I said boldly I have a choice! I'm choosing my way own way! I know a better way! God you can have anything else but just let me do this part! 

I was completely out of control. Yet I was reading your books living through the lives of August and Aliya and their friends secretly wondering what it was like to be loved. A lot of those girls were like me, and the book even helped know what to look for in a husband. With just a few chapters left my friend confronted me and I had some serious repentance. I was able to let go of my fears, selfishness and let God have HIS WAY. I was genuinely sorry. 

So, thank you so much. There was a line in the book that said if marriage is a part of God's plan for your life you have to trust Him and be okay with it. I was so floored. I knew I had to change my ways. My own way was driving me crazy. And even now I can't say I'm ecstatic but I can say that I trust God with my heart and my life. I even testified at church. So many doors have opened for my job, my book and my heart has softened towards Jesus once again. Your books are an inspiration to live for God. - NH, Reader

This is what it is all about! I never tire of hearing how God has changed a life, restored a marriage, healed a heart, given hope for the future through Church Love. It is entirely God's doing and it is marvelous in his eyes! It also inspires me to complete the last novel in this series! God loves his people so much, and desires to win our hearts, even if he has to use a novel to do so. 

Until we meet in Savannah, 

Blessings and Church Love 

Church Love Celebration

Let Me Say first and foremost, THANK YOU! As I am author, editor, and publisher for my company along with a small team of faithful individuals, I do want to say thank you for bearing with the process of writing and producing a quality work.

We are celebrating TEN years of Church Love! I cannot believe it has been a DECADE! My heart swells every time I get a message from a new reader who has just been introduced to Savannah and the wonders of Savannah, GA.

God continues to amaze me with how He has used this prophetic fiction series to transform lives. I am looking forward to the final release of the series and a Church Love devotional is in the works as well.

In the meantime, God has done something equally amazing by allowing me to co-author an e-book with my husband, Robert Charles! It is Volume 1 of the Church Love B.L.I.S.S. series, a series dedicated to extracting some of those principles intertwined in Church Love to give you the Biblical bearings and framework for my story.

I pray that you will purchase an E-book and that the teaching will enhance your life and those of your friends as well.
KINDLE http://www.amazon.com/Church-B-L-I-S-S-Believe-Sacred-Special-ebook/dp/B00IH5H440

NOOK http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/church-love-bliss-series-volume-1-shantae-charles/1118611732?ean=2940148269243

Check out some of the awesome stories on my FB page ChurchLoveNovels
You can also follow @churchlove333
To see what Authors we have worked with and what is new in our publishing corner, check our FB page God Ideas.

Until we meet in Savannah,

Shantae A. Charles

Join Author Shantae Charles for "Principles of Courtship" LIVE Session

Courtship.

One of the things I focus on in the Church Love Novel Series. 

Courtship is NOT dating. 

Dating has a very storied history and is primarily an American custom. 

Courting also has a very detailed history and has roots all the way back to the Bible.

Join me for a time of teaching on principles of courtship that are Biblically based with the

Women Rise Above Fellowship!

We'll have a time of Q& A and prayer for those on the line. 

I'm excited about what God is going to do!

If you want to see courtship in action, and you enjoy fiction reading,  order my prophetic novel series Church Love. Godly principles for living are woven throughout the story. 

I write with real people in mind, who have real issues, and need God answers.

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See You ON the LINE!

Love & Relationships- Quotables

As the last book in my series is in process, I want to share some notable quotes I've come across from those who believe in the power of God ordained marriage. May these sound bites bless you and encourage you wherever you are : single, courting, or married!

Thinking of my marriage (13 years and counting) and smiling from ear to ear as I hear this wonderful thought:

If you are willing to let God wreck your plans, He WILL fix your life!

I've come to appreciate God's sense of humor through the loving relationship I have that I did not want and ran from (literally). So many times, we get squeamish with God about relationships. He can have our jobs, ministry, hobbies, but that Love Life? Oh, _God don't touch it! You don't know what you're doing there. Really? God knows. He knows YOU better than you know yourself. Trust Him, even in that. Stop doubting God, and let Him write your love story. He knows when you are ready...and when you are STALLING.  

- Shantae Charles

Single & constantly coming up frustrated? Just stop it because what you're focusing on is amplifying. Focus on Christ instead.
If you aren't happy single, you sure wont be happy married. Marriage only amplifies your issues.

-Heather Lindsey, Pastor & Founder of Pinky Promise 

 Don't miss your miracle playing house with a mistake. Some have missed a good thing because he or she didn't "look" the part, now someone else got what you wanted, fixed it up, dressed it up." 

- Barbara Gaines, Prophetess

To those in relationships: If a woman can support her man's dream, there's no excuse for a man to not support his woman's dream.

-Tremayne Moore, Author & Advocate

I always knew that sex outside of marriage was sinful and God hates it, but I really never understood why. At this point,I was not saved but God begun to strip the sinful desires away from me. I was tired of being hurt, not valued, and I always knew it wasn't pleasing to God. How could we expect God to bless our relationship when it's in direct rebellion against Him? I don't say this to brag,but to give hope to the many people who want to start over and do it the RIGHT way, to do things God's way. Sex is for our HUSBAND only, not every boyfriend, boo, ,baby daddy, or fiance! By God's grace,He has kept me for 2 years. Don't let society fool you, PURITY is still the way to go! Sex may feel good but moments of pleasure are not worth the heartbreaks, soul ties and eternal damnation. Know your worth and keep your standards in Christ!

-Brittany Jay, Founder of High Heels and High Standards

 Ladies Keep Your Legs Closed! Don't Be So Free With Your Body. Men can have sex without commitment and without love. For many men sex and relationship do not necessarily have anything to do with each other. If you want to keep your value and worth with a man, make him work for your affection!

-Tranea Prosser, Author 

WHAT DO THE LONELY DO FOR CHRISTMAS?
Whatever the heck they want to do!!!
Now, a word to my fellow single brothers and sisters.
1) Stop saying that all the good ones are taken. That's insulting to God. What are you? You're good right, how did you become good? God!
2) Well "where da' at den"?
Where you at?
You should be actively honoring God by doing what you enjoy in life and then sometimes you should get into other people's life and help them do what they do. That was the seasoned wisdom of Naomi to Ruth. She did not tell that young lady some ole' dumb foolishness like "girl Boaz knows where you live, let that rich negro call you." She told Ruth in essence that if it was a no good man, DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME! But he is a good man. I know, because he is my kindred. Be a lady? yes, but POSITION YOURSELF. Get into his fields". In this season, both male and female, get into others fields and help them do what they do. There may be a "Boaz or Ruth" blessing in it.
3) Stop hating on married people and learn to enjoy what God has given them. God is not going to let you have what you desecrate by speaking against. Let happily married people be an inspiration to us. We have no idea what they have been through.  

- Elliott Shepherd , Pastor & TV Broadcast Mogul

Mat 1:18 ... His mother Mary was betrothed to Joseph) before they came together, she was found to be with child by the Holy Spirit.
Mat 1:19 But Joseph, her husband to be, being just, and not willing to make her a public example, he purposed to put her away secretly.
LESSON:
Courtship is not for SEX...it is your last chance to save yourself from a bad marriage. While in courtship, open your EYES and not YOUR ZIPPER

- Charles Iko'basi,  Pastor & Author

  

Some people think the key to staying married is staying in love. But the secret to staying married is staying. Couples fall in and out of love all the time. If you don't stay, you don't have that opportunity. 

- Barbara Joe, Publisher, Author, and Founder of Tallahassee Author's Network

#WomenOf God don't get so caught up in his looks,muscles, degree,career,accolades,and worldly success that you neglect the most important qualities in a Godly man. How is his prayer life,relationship with God,and vision looking? Does He truly love & live for God,know the gospel,make his intentions about you known upfront,meek & humble,walking in purity until marriage,active in ministry,and teachable? If a man is not being led by God then he can not lead you anywhere!  

-Brittany Jay, Founder of High Heels & High Standards

He kisses you, touches you, sex you, texts you, and "loves" you... but he doesn't pray for you... If he won't touch GOD, why let him touch YOU?

- Alana Hughes  

Stay Encouraged!

 

My ChurchLove Story~ The Douglas Family

Meet The Douglas Family

I have been a Church Love fan since the beginning. I remember my mother giving me Book One as a teenager. I figured she saw the book and thought of me because she knew of my love for Christian romance novels. I thought it would be just as any other book I'd read and enjoyed; I never imagined that Church Love would be essential to my dating life. It served as an example of Godly dating. It also served as an ally for me. I met my husband in church and we began dating in high school. During that time, I was the only one among my friends who was dating a "church boy". Church Love was my "How To" manual and a picturesque example of a dating relationship between two Believers. Additionally, Church Love demonstrated that my feelings of attraction and desire for a man were God-given and they were not to be condemned. Instead, those feelings were to be embraced and understood, yet disciplined. Church Love was an illustration of how, as a Believer, I was to date, love, and show affection toward my boyfriend.



Today, as a married woman, Church Love serves another purpose. While it remains my "How To" manual, it provides guidance in a different way. It teaches me about the various dimensions of intimacy between husband and wife, dimensions that I desire to reach. Also, it shows me how to be the wife of a man in ministry. I now have knowledge of the sacrifice, responsibilities, and what is required of me so my husband is able to walk in God's will for his life. It demonstrates what it means for a wife to be a helper and a complement to her husband. Finally, Church Love has been a model of a deeper level of love, commitment and all the benefits God wants husbands and wives to enjoy. In addition to the help of the Holy Ghost, this book has been my teacher, example, and confidant regarding Church and Godly love.

                                                            Kolanda Douglas,
                                                            Church Love Fan

Church Love & Hot Button Issues

Human Trafficking 

What's Church Love Got To Do With It? 

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One of the things I have tried to do in my writing is promote awareness of issues that affect women. In my first book, I tackled cancer and fibroid tumors. I was to discover later that I would deal with that issue in a very real and personal way. In book two, I tackle date rape and the emotional scars that come with it, that God can deliver from. It was an issue close to my heart as I was date raped during my freshman year of college. In book three, I tackle harassment, stalking, and bullying, both child and adult. These too are issues I've had to deal with and respond to in a way that honored my female spirit without causing me to compromise my moral integrity by "losing my cool". This last book in the series, I am tackling Human Trafficking. I began in 2010 to see what an issue this was, when trying to solicit businesses to post advertising for help for those who may not speak English. I was shocked and appalled and even withdrew my financial support of businesses that refused to support the mission of rescuing young women brought into the United States from other countries, particularly Spanish speaking, who had no way of getting help. As the Lord moved my family to another state, I have been able to come into contact with advocates and organizations who turn an eye to local human trafficking as well as international. This is a serious problem and the Church should be involved in bringing awareness, advocating, and providing mentorship to young women pulled out of the evil of human flesh for sale. So, as I publish this last book in the series, my prayer is that these issues highlighted in my work will touch you in some way and get you thinking about how you can participate in promoting the Gospel in society. What's Church Love have to do with that? Everything. It is one way we can be the tangible expression of God's love. Church Love: Real People, Real Issues, God Answers. 

See You in Savannah, 

Shantae Charles

He Loves Me KNOT- Tied Up With The Wrong One

 

"I wish you were a little bigger."

 

"I wish you were a little thinner."

 

"Can't you be more like her?"

 

"She's just my sideline. You know you're number one."

 

"I'd be more faithful if you gave me what I wanted."

___________________________________________________________

 

 

Ever heard any of these pathetic lines? These and many other words can be heard daily. Some males actually have the audacity to put these words in writing. And some women sadly have bought into these words. Let me be the first to tell you loud and clear: He loves you KNOT.

 

 

A true relationship is built on love and respect. In order for you to have a healthy relationship, there has to be a level of acceptance. In a healthy relationship, you are not a 'project ' to be worked on, but a person to be cherished. Should you want to look good? Should you want to be healthy? Of course you should. But those desires should first come from your own esteem. Sis, if you are only motivated when he's around to lose weight or look your best, what happens when the relationship ends? Your self-worth has got to start with how you see you. The best image of you comes from God. He says that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. There's not a greater compliment in the world, in my opinion. If he doesn't look at you in awe, then he is KNOT the One. Don't get caugt up in changing for someone. Change and improve because it benefits you naturally and spiritually.

 

A true relationship is built on complements, not comparisons. The person you are in a healthy relationship should spend time finding your strengths, finding out how you complement one another. If they spend the majority of your time together making comparisons of you with other women, real or photoshop, there's going to be serious problems. You are NOT Beyonce, or J Lo. You can only be you. Changing yourself to fit an image will only damage you in the end. Be true to who you are: you may be a girly girl or a jeans and t-shirt woman. If he continually wants you to change your appearance to satisfy his ego or his fantasy, he is KNOT the One.

 

A true relationship is built on faithfulness, trust, and exclusivity. Yes, you may be able to do more than one thing at one time. But you cannot do more than ONE relationship at a time--or rather you shouldn't. Romantic relationships take time. It really is not wise to be in more than one relationship at a time. You should also take a break between relationships so that you can process what went wrong (if the relationship failed). I advocate courtship not dating, Period. Courtship is a focused, exclusive relationship with more in mind than just having fun and passing the time. Your time is precious! You relationship will only be taken as seriously as you take it. If he can breeze in and out of your life, call you at all times of the day and night, and interrupt your schedule whenever he feels like it, don't expect a committed relationship anytime soon. If you are second, alternate, or other in his life, he is KNOT the One.

 

A true relationship is a mutual give and take, not coercion. The person you are in a relationship should respect your values and principles, especially when it comes to your body. It is your temple, your sacred space, created by God. That's right. Don't allow anyone to force you to violate your own body. The Bible says that sexual sin is the sin we commit against ourselves. (I Cor. 6) Sex is not just physical and emotional. It is spiritual. Most pagan religions have always understood this about sex (hence temple prostitution in offering to false gods). A part of you joins with a part of the indivual you have sexual relations with. This is one reason why you should wait until marriage. For every partner that you have outside of marriage, you give a part of your spiritual self away. This is why many who are sexually active at a young age suffer from depression, and other ills. They have entered into something they had no full understanding of. A condom does not protect your emotions, or your spirit from the damage of violating a God- instituted principle. If he is pressuring you for sex outside of marriage, he is KNOT the One. Could he change? Sure, he could. Does God forgive us if we have violated this principle? If we repent, Yes, He does. If you are practicing sex outside of the marriage bed, STOP. If he cannot agree to a relationship without sex until marriage, he is KNOT the One.

 

 

Here is a real description of LOVE:

 

Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have.
Love doesn’t strut,
Doesn’t have a swelled head,
Doesn’t force itself on others,
Isn’t always “me first,”
Doesn’t fly off the handle,
Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn’t revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.

 

That's love. It's not a user. It's not an abuser. It's not an accuser.

 

Ladies, don't get tied up with the wrong one. Evaluate and make the necessary changes.

Much Love!

 



LOVE COSTS

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son,

 that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

John 3:16

 

This verse is known the world over. It is the message that God loves everyone universally and unconditonally. It is understood that God was willing to give his only Son to the cause of humanity's redemption. God made the ultimate sacrifice for us and in turn as we live our lives for Him, He challenges us to give the same self-sacrificing love that we have recieved. And therein lies the challenge.

 

Love is not just butterflies, candy, flowers, and sunny days. Love is also earth-quaking, shattering, breath-stopping pain. Love isn't simply warm fuzzies. Love can require of us lettting go, knowing that another person's happiness may not bring you a desired outcome. Love can require us to speak up when we would rather remain silent because we don't want the confrontation that love can bring. Love is messy, but love is worth all that it brings.

Love costs. Romantic Love? Costs even more.  It costs you to open up and be vulnerable with another human being, to allow them into your spiritual space, your soul. When you engage in the act of intimacy (sexual intercourse) you intertwine your soul with the soul of another. It's a part of you that you cannot get back. This is why the Word of God says that a man sins agasint his own self when committing fornication (sex outside the marriage covenant).

When you repeatedly commit this crime against your self, in the process you lose soul. What shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his soul?  A love-emptied soul is a dangerous one. It stops counting the cost because it has become bankrupt. We live in a day where the love of many has waxed cold. How did they get there? The deposits stopped.

Don't stop depositing and filling your heart with the love of God and the compassion of God. This world will present you with many opportunities to say, "Love isn't worth it." Don't buy into it. Remember, age after age, mankind has continually given God pause, to say "I repent that I made man," and He is the Creator of the Universe! Yet, God in His mercy made a way for our sins not to separate us from His Love. And it cost HIM. People will give you cause to pause, cause to throw in the towel, but keep going. Keep loving. Keep praying, Father: show me how to love like YOU have loved Me.

I am reminded of how much GOD loved and continues to Love Me. The price was beyond value. The beautiful thing about God is that He has not asked of us, what he has not done himself. He looked past our faults and saw our need to be loved. We love Him because He first loved us.

Love costs. Spend it well. Spend it often. Spend it generously.

Church Love: A Divine Romance

Church Love, The Seasons In Savannah Series is centered around a community of multicultural Believers who are connected by their love for God, family, and community. Unlike many Christian series, this novel series does not focus on one particular culture (African-American, Hispanic, etc.) or type of Believer (Baptist, Amish, Pentecostal, etc.) but rather focuses on the shared Faith that the community holds: One Lord, One Faith, One Baptism.

Church Love is set in Savannah, Georgia, and deals with issues beyond romantic relationships. I tackle, Courtship Principles, Breast Cancer, Fibroid Tumors, Single Motherhood, Entrepreneurship, Restoring Families,Syndicated Crime, Rape, and up next, in the final installment of the series, Human Trafficking. Though lengthy, the series reads like a fast paced movie, drawing the reader in and making them feel apart of the Church Love community. The characters are real. The issues are real. But there's a real God that they serve who speaks audibly and through His Word to help the characters navigate through the mundane and the unexpected turns and twists that life takes us in .

The underlying principle of the Church Love Series is how very much God wants to engage us in all aspects of our lives, from what profession we pursue to who we marry, God invites us to include Him in the journey. And many of us, like the elegant Savannah, or the straight-laced Augusta, hesitate to really let people in to love us, are sometimes similar in our attitude towards God. But, like the characters in the story, God doesn't give up on us, but He pursues us, woos us, and loves us with an UNstoppable love.

So, if you've never read the series, pick up your copies today if you are new to the series. If you're emailing the author frantic with impatience, wondering when the last installment is coming, then introduce someone else to the series. Plan a trip to the beautiful city of Savannah, make it a Girl's Retreat and check out the sites from the novel.

Some readers have selected Church Love as their reading group book of the month, some Pastors have used the principles as counseling for engaged and married couples, some have discovered a love for reading late in life, and some are planning that Single's Getaway (you'll have to read Book 3 to understand :)

I would love to hear how the series has impacted your life, what character you found yourself relating to, and how you are using the principles laid out in fiction. Until we meet again in Savannah, remember the greatest thing you can give in this life is LOVE!

Writing in Progress,

Shantae A. Charles

Love From God's Eye View

Love requires you to unwrap the package and accept the gift, flaws and all.

HGQ

As I currently work on my last novel in the Church Love series, I am struck by how many quotes I can find on love, or rather someone's spin on it. Underneath the cute phrases, there's some envy, and some selfish motive involved. So, I set out to find what the scriptures say about love from God's perspective and what kind of light it sheds on the kind of love we say we are offering our significant others and our friends. Here's 5 verses and what I've found in them:

Love Lesson 1

Romans 5:8 but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
 Love doesn't wait on anyone else to respond. Love is always the first to act, and the last to leave you.

Love Lesson 2

Romans 13:8 Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law.
No matter how many rules you keep, you've broken them all if you don't love

Love Lesson 3

John 15:9-10 As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.
Love is a place and a person. People don't go to the place, if they don't feel it from the person.

Love Lesson 4

John 14:21-24 Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me.
1 John 3:18 Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.
Love has proof.You can't say you love and then offer no evidence.

Love Lesson 5

Proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
Love doesn't back out during difficult times. Lust and selfish ambition does.

I encourage you to meditate on these verses and ask God to reveal to you more principles about this emotion called love. You'll be surprised at what He will speak as you meditate on His Word!

Believe Love Is Sacred & Special

In a world where it is all to easy to treat love casually, here are some

CHRISTIAN COURTSHIP PRINCIPLES

For those who believe love is sacred and special

God has written us on the palm of his hand. We are his love note.

v  See yourself the way God sees you: Unique, Chosen, and Special

v  Align your values with the Word of God and don’t substitute His standards

v  Don’t place God in a box. He knows you better than you know yourself

v  Pray, Fast, and Seek God before entering or committing to any relationship

v  Do not court the unsaved; you will begin your relationship at odds

v  Make sure the person you are courting is growing in the Lord

v  Make sure the person you are courting in submitted to a local body and the leadership

v  Ask a lot of questions and don’t be intimidated when others ask you the hard questions

v  Fellowship in a group instead of one-to-one settings

v  Introduce them to your pastor; abide by your leaders rules set in your house of worship

v  Ask to be introduced formally to their leader if you don’t share the same one

v  Do not become engaged without Christian counsel

v  Do not plan a wedding during courtship or engagement; these are separate processes

v  Do not mislead anyone about your intentions. Friends should be treated as friends

v  Do not place commitment before compatibility

v  Do not get ahead of God; if He says wait, wait. If He says no, believe He has better

v  Avoid the marriage is the answer to everything syndrome; it is ministry to a dying world

v  Don’t create soul ties (opening yourself up spiritually, physically, emotionally before God’s timing)

v  Don’t ignore warning signs of potential problems (abuse, addictions, possessiveness) they will only magnify later

v  Know when to stop the bleeding; don’t remain in a relationship because of obligation or guilt. Call it off if necessary and the person refuses to get counseling

v  Give yourself time between relationships (at least 6 months )

v  Courtship should have a goal in mind. It is not casual dating. You should be able to see yourself growing with the person and making a lifelong commitment to them and potential family. This is not for the person simply looking for “a good time”

v  You are more than a good time. You are a person who is worth the value and quality God invested in you. You are treasure, and the wise person will search for and seek you out

v  Allow others to hold you accountable in your relationship, those who care more about your spiritual health than saying what you want to hear

 Taken from the B.L.I.S.S. conference hosted by God Ideas LLC. For more information, email churchlove333@yahoo.com

Real People. Real Issues. God Answers.

Heartache. Blind Dates. Emotions blading on ice skates?

Sly glances. Second chances.

Turning Cynics into Romantics?

Chest constricting? Stomach in knots?

Butterflies fluttering? Having second thoughts?

God understands every feeling under the sun.

God knows the feeling of giving your heart to that special someone.

Risking everything you are,

and everything...you're not.

But loving passionately with all you've got.

Real people. Real issues. To God who sees everything.

He's got an answer for heartbrokeness, unrequited love,

and love in full swing.

So if you want to journey to love bird lane,

find yourself holding your breath, or releasing your pain.

Come laugh, cry, pray, and get to know the God above.

I dare you to be changed by an encounter with Church Love.

**snaps** and Church Love 2 ya!

Press Without Stress

It's only 13 days into 2012 and you're already feeling the press. Well, I invite you join me at the True Deliverance 11th Annual Women's Conference. The theme, "Press Without Stress" invite you to come out and learn with your fellow sisters in Christ how to do so on Saturday January 14, 2012 at 10 am. The conference is free and open to the public. I will  also be signing and taking orders for Church Love Novels. So, if you are in the VA,DC,MD area, I invite you to come out and prepare to be equipped to press forward in your purpose and leave the stress behind! Visit www.truedeliverance.org for more information and directions.

Something To Talk About

The Church Love Novel Series, set in Savannah, GA is the food for the Spiritual Soul. The Novels address everything from broken family relationships, to date rape, to women's health issues like breast cancer. The underlying theme is that in the midst of our brokeness, God Himself is there to heal us, and in the midst of our dysfunctions in relationships, He is there to speak to us, and guide us into healthy, God-honoring relationships. All Novels are available through www.createspace.com. www.amazon.com, www.bn.com, www.booksamillion.com and wherever books are sold. They also available as e-books through Nook & Kindle. For bookings, you can email shantaecharles333@gmail.com.

10 Reasons 2 Read Church Love Novels

I love a challenge! I was asked the other day to give some reasons why my book series stands out among the MANY summer reads available. In talk-show fashion here are what I believe are the top ten reasons you should get off your couch, get to a bookstore, computer, or phone and purchase, order, or download my novels and get to reading!

TOP 10 Reasons To Read Church Love Novels

10. You have absolutely ZERO understanding of the opposite sex.
(think CLUELESS)

9. You have no understanding of dating and courtship.

8. You want to laugh out loud repeatedly. Over and Over again.

7. You want a good, clean, read.

6. You like to support ($$$) writers you know.

5. You want to put a Christian on the. Bestsellers lists.

4. You want to experience the presence of God through fiction.

3. You want to read a novel that makes you put away Zane,Harris,Tyree

2. You HATE reading and want to accept a challenge that Church Love
can change that.

1. You want to say you discovered a great writer BEFORE
she became outrageously famous! (hindsight is 20/20, LOL!)

If you have READ Church Love Novels, I'd love to hear from you! Share your comments below!

Blessings and Church <3